The cycle of abuse is silent.

On average, an Oklahoman dies every five days as a result of domestic violence. It is estimated almost four in 10 women have experienced physical violence by an intimate partner in their lifetime.

Finding a safe shelter is more than finding a place to spend a few nights and then leaving unsupported, without the strength to make lasting changes. As long as a guest is working toward their goals, there is no limit to how long a guest can reside at The Spring.

Why do victims stay in domestic violence relationships?

  • Children

    Fear of losing custody of their children if they leave.

  • Isolation

    Isolated from family and friends who can offer support.

  • Love

    Having a desire to keep their relationship alive.

  • Shame

    Humiliation and shame that make victims feel worthless.

  • Money

    Lack of financial means to afford life on her own.

  • Fear

    Fear of retaliation for herself and loved ones.

Help stop violence. Report Abuse.

Abusers use various means to keep control over their victims. Help us stop violence against women who are being controlled and abused daily all around us.

It is your decision to let others know that you are in an abusive relationship or at risk.

If you are in an abusive situation and are not able or ready to leave, it’s important to think about how to keep yourself and others in the home safe. Creating a safety plan can help lower risk and optimize safety. Every plan should include places you could go if you left your home and people who might help you when you leave. 

COMMUNITY SUPPORTERS

The Mary Kay Ash Foundation works to eradicate gender-based violence against women and girls around the world. The Mary Kay Ash Foundation is a generous supporter of The Spring.