The Need is Great
Here’s why organizations like The Spring are vitally important in Oklahoma.
"On average, an Oklahoman dies every five days as a result of domestic violence.”
Every five days. We keep this statistic posted in large letters on our website — it’s a sobering reminder of the situation we fight against daily. Unfortunately, that startling statistic doesn’t tell the whole story of domestic violence in Oklahoma. Here are a few other facts that you might not know:
A study by World Population Review found that Oklahoma had the highest rate of domestic violence in the entire United States — 49.1 % of women and 40.7% of men in the state experience domestic violence in their lifetimes, including intimate partner physical violence, intimate partner rape, or intimate partner stalking.
That same study found that Oklahoma ranks third in the United States for femicide — instances of women killed by men in single-victim, single-offender homicides.
Instances of violence extend even to younger generations. Among Oklahoma public high school students, 1 in 14 have experienced recent physical dating violence and 1 in 15 have recently experienced sexual dating violence.
Most statistics probably underrepresent the problem, as they are based on police reports. Many victims choose not to report their situations to authorities for many reasons.
It’s impossible to read the above statistics and not feel discouraged. That’s why The Spring works so hard to provide survivors of domestic abuse with safety and advocacy. As the only faith-based certified shelter for victims and their survivors, we believe that restoration is possible. Our visitors are stepping out of a dark time, seeking life-changing freedom and a new-found hope in the Lord.
But we can’t do it alone. Everyone can contribute to changing these dire statistics and creating a better future for Oklahomans. More than that, we all have a responsibility to stop domestic violence. No matter your situation or status, you can make an impact on the lives of survivors. We encourage you to consider three key steps to get involved in this fight:
Listen and learn. There are many common misconceptions about domestic violence and its victims, and these can often stand in the way of empathy and aid. Commit to learning more about the issue and listening to the stories of survivors.
Get involved. The movement to end domestic violence can’t function without the time and generosity of people all over the world. Whether you’re volunteering at a local shelter or giving to one of the many organizations performing the vital work of advocacy, it’s making a difference. Thank you.
Spread the word. Even if you’re not ready to give or volunteer, there are ways you can draw attention to the many resources available for victims. Commit to learning more about the shelters near you and the services they offer. You can also organize trainings in your church or place of business through certified service providers like The Spring. And you can use your power as a consumer to refuse to support media products that glorifies violence against women.
The statistics are dire, and the need is great — but there is hope. Together, we can create better futures for Oklahomans.
